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About Shep Hyken

Shep Hyken is a customer service expert, keynote speaker, and New York Times, bestselling business author. For information on The Customer Focus™ customer service training programs, go to www.thecustomerfocus.com. Follow on Twitter: @Hyken

Don’t Make Customers Do These Seven Things They Hate

Don't Make Customers Do These Seven Things They Hate

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Recently, I had an experience with a company and thought, “I hate this … Why do they make me do this?” This question wasn’t because of curiosity. No, I was thinking that this is something other customers must hate as well, but they make them do it anyway. So, I started a personal brainstorming session to list various processes, requirements, policies, rules, and more that cause customers to question why they continue to do business with these companies. Of course, my mind immediately went to customer service and experience issues, but there’s much more. With that in mind, here are seven practices, steps, processes, and policies that customers hate, but companies make them do it anyway.

Customers Hate:

  1. To Wait – Long hold times and long lines are frustrating and send negative messages, such as the customer’s time isn’t valued or the company is understaffed.
  2. Repeating Anything – Calling customer support and being passed around to different people, having to repeat your story again and again, isn’t fun. Nor is filling out forms that repeat the information you’ve already filled out on previous forms.
  3. Finding Hidden Fees – A stated price should be the price – with no extra fees. I recently checked into a hotel. They told me I had a $30 food and beverage credit as part of my stay – a nice surprise. Upon checking out, I noticed a $30 charge referred to as a “Destination Fee.” I asked about it, and the clerk said it was to cover the $30 food and beverage credit.
  4. Filling Out Bad Surveys – Customers are learning to dislike surveys, especially if they are long. There are right and wrong ways to do surveys. And a bad survey shouldn’t be the last thing a customer experiences when doing business with you.
  5. Listening to Complicated Phone Options – If you’ve called a company and been told to “listen to the following as our options have changed,” so you listen to the many options, and once you choose one, there are even more options … Well, I think you get the picture. There’s better technology to get the customer to the right person or the information they need.
  6. Annoying Pop-Up Windows – If you’ve been on a website and are reading information or an article and pesky pop-up windows keep interrupting you with irrelevant messages and advertising, you’re a victim of annoying pop-up windows.
  7. Anything that Requires Unnecessary Effort – Maybe you have a simple request or question. Why should it take a long time to fill out forms, answer unnecessary questions or more to get an answer?

There is a theme to this list. All of these imply the company doesn’t respect the customer’s time, energy, and effort. The goal should be the opposite: to respect and value your customer’s time, energy, and effort. Don’t create friction and put customers through anything more than necessary to get them what they want. In short, have a goal to be the easiest company to do business with. If you’re serious about it, you’ll find ways to eliminate and mitigate friction. And this list is far from complete. There are many, many other things customers hate doing.

So, here’s your assignment. Sit down with your team and brainstorm all the things they hate to do when doing business with any company. Then, ask what they think customers might hate about doing business with you. This can be processes, steps, policies, and more. Once you have the list, you know what to do. Eliminate all that makes doing business with you painful – or at least make some of the less painful. Don’t make your customers do things they hate doing!

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The Secret to Endless Customers

The Secret to Endless Customers

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Marcus Sheridan owns a pool and spa manufacturing company in Virginia — not a very sexy business, unless you consider the final product, which is often surrounded by beautiful people. What he did to stand out in a marketplace filled with competition is a masterclass in how to get noticed and, more importantly, get business. His most recent book, Endless Customers, is a follow-up to his bestselling book They Ask, You Answer, with updated information and new ideas that will help you build a business that has, as the title implies, endless customers.

Sheridan’s journey began in 2001 when he started a pool company with two friends. When the 2008 market collapse hit, they were on the verge of losing everything. This crisis forced them to think differently about how to reach customers. Sheridan realized that potential buyers were searching for answers to their questions, so he decided his company would become “the Wikipedia of fiberglass swimming pools.”

By brainstorming every question he’d ever received as a pool salesperson and addressing them through content online, his company’s website became the most trafficked swimming pool website in the world within just a couple of years. This approach transformed his business and became the foundation for his business philosophy.

In our interview on Amazing Business Radio, Sheridan shared what he believes is the most important strategy that businesses can use to get and keep customers, and that is to become a known and trusted brand. They must immerse themselves in what he calls the Four Pillars of a Known and Trusted Brand.

  1. Say What Others Aren’t Willing to Say: The No. 1 reason people leave websites is because they can’t find what they’re looking for — and the top information they seek is pricing. Sheridan emphasizes that businesses should openly discuss costs and pricing on their websites. While you don’t need to list exact prices, you should educate consumers about what drives costs up or down in your industry. Sheridan suggests creating a comprehensive pricing page that teaches potential customers how to buy in your industry. According to him, 90% of industries still avoid this conversation, even though it’s what customers want most.
  2. Show What Others Aren’t Willing to Show: When Sheridan’s company was manufacturing fiberglass swimming pools, it became the first to show its entire manufacturing process from start to finish through a series of videos. They were so complete that someone could literally learn how to start their own manufacturing company by watching these videos. Sheridan recognized that sharing the “secret sauce” was a level of transparency that built trust, helping to make his company the obvious choice for many customers.
  3. Sell in Ways Others Aren’t Willing to Sell: According to Sheridan, 75% of today’s buyers prefer a “seller-free sales experience.” He says, “That doesn’t mean we hate salespeople. We just don’t want to talk to them until we’re very, very, ready.” Sheridan suggests meeting customers where they are by offering self-service options on your website. For his pool and spa business, that included a price estimator solution that helped potential customers determine how much they could afford — without the pressure of talking to a salesperson.
  4. Be More Human than Others Are Willing to Be: In a world that is becoming dominated by AI and technology, showing the human side of a business is critical to a trusting business relationship. Sheridan suggests putting leaders and employees on camera. They are truly the “face of the brand.” It’s okay to use AI, just find the balance that helps you stay human in a technology-dominated world.

As we wrapped up the interview, I asked Sheridan to share his most powerful idea, and the answer goes back to a word he used several times throughout the interview: Trust. “In a time of change, we need, as businesses, constants that won’t change,” Sheridan explained. “One thing I can assure you is that in 10 years, you’re going to be in a battle for trust. It’s the one thing that binds all of us. It’s the great currency that is not going to go away. So, become that voice of trust. If you do, your organization is going to be built to last.”

And that, according to Sheridan, is how you create “endless customers.”

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This article originally appeared on Forbes.com

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Four Keys to a World-Class Customer Experience

Four Keys to a World-Class Customer Experience

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I’m going to start this article with a theme I’ve preached for years: When it comes to customer service and experience, our customers no longer compare us just to our competitors. Their mental benchmark, whether they know it or not, comes from the best experience they have had from any company or brand. It’s companies like Amazon, Apple, Costco, Chick-fil-A, and others that excel in providing an experience that gets customers to come back, that become our customers’ standard for service. When they have anything other than a positive experience, they may say something like, “Why can’t they be as good as _____?” (Fill in the blank with their favorite company.)

With that in mind, I’d like to offer up the idea that if we focus on creating an experience based on trying to be better than a competitor, and that may mean you are the best in your industry, it still may not meet a customer’s expectations. All you are is the best dog in a horse race.

Being best in your industry means best in class, but as I just mentioned, it may not be enough. What you want to do is start comparing yourself – as in your company – to the obvious customer experience leaders. No, you may not be able to do what Amazon or Apple do, but using them as a model can help you move from best in class to world class.

Best in Class Shep Hyken Cartoon

So, how can you make this shift? Start by identifying what makes world-class companies so appealing to their customers. In my annual customer service and customer experience (CX) research, we find the best companies and brands share certain traits:

  1. Consistency – Customers can predict their experience every time. It’s not great one time and the next time just average. Consistency creates predictability, and if the consistent experience is what customers want and know they will get, they come back.
  2. Quick Response – Whether it’s Amazon’s instant confirmation emails or a faster-than-expected returned phone call or email, customers love it when the companies they do business with are fast in their communication.
  3. Empowered Employees – Your customers are frustrated when they are dealing with employees who aren’t allowed to make decisions. If you hire good people and train them well, let them do their job. Not only will customers be happy, but your employees will appreciate the company they work for even more.
  4. Friction-Free – I wrote an entire book on this topic, The Convenience Revolution. Find ways to be easy to do business with. Eliminate anything that is a hassle or has friction associated with it.

Here’s why I love these ideas. You don’t have to be Amazon or Apple to implement any of these. Any company, regardless of size or industry, can do this. You don’t need a technology budget to respond to customers quickly or empower your team.

Look at your customer journey and ask: What would world-class companies, such as Amazon, do at this touch point?” Or, “How would Apple handle this situation?” This exercise can reveal the opportunities you might miss when you’re only comparing yourself to your direct competitors.

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You Need to Know What Your Customers Think of AI

You Need to Know What Your Customers Think of AI

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Ten years ago, only the most technologically advanced companies used AI — although it barely resembled what companies use today when communicating with customers — and it was very, very expensive. But not anymore. Today, any company can implement an AI strategy using ChatGPT-type technologies, often creating experiences that give customers what they want. But not always, which is why the information below is important.

The 2025 Findings

My annual customer service and customer experience (CX) research study surveys more than 1,000 U.S. consumers weighted to the population’s demographics of age, gender, ethnicity and geography. It included an entire group of questions focused on how customers react to and accept (or don’t accept) AI options to ask questions, resolve problems and communicate with a company or brand. Consider the following findings:

  • AI Success: Half of U.S. customers (50%) said they have successfully resolved a customer service issue using AI or ChatGPT-type technologies without needing human assistance. In 2024, only three out of 10 customers (32%) did so. That’s great news, but it’s important to point out that age makes a difference. Six out of 10 Gen-Z customers (61%) successfully used AI support versus just 32% of Boomers.
  • AI Is Far From Perfect: Half of U.S. customers (51%) said they received incorrect information from an AI self-service bot. Even with incredible improvement in AI’s capabilities, it still serves up wrong information. That destroys trust, not only in the company but also in the technology as a whole. A few bad answers and customers will be reluctant, at least in the near term, to choose self-service over the traditional mode of communication, the phone.
  • Still, Customers Believe: Four out of 10 customers (42%) believe AI and ChatGPT can handle complex customer service inquiries as effectively as humans. Even with the mistakes, customers believe AI solutions work. However, 86% of customers think companies using AI should always provide an option to speak or text with a real person.
  • The Phone Still Rules: It’s still too early to throw away phone support. My prediction is that it will be years, if ever, that human-to-human interactions completely disappear, which was proven when we asked, “When you have a problem or issue with a company, which solution do you prefer to use: phone or digital self-service?” The answer is that 68% of customers will still choose the phone over digital self-service. That number is highly influenced by the 82% of Baby Boomers who choose to call a company over any other type of digital support.
  • The Future Looks Strong For AI Customer Support: Six out of 10 customers (63%) expect AI-fueled technologies to become the primary mode of customer support. We asked the same question in 2021, and only 21% of customers felt this way.

The Strategy Behind Using AI For CX

  • Age Matters: As you can see from some of the above findings, there is a big generational gap between younger and older customers. Gen-Z customers are more comfortable, have had more success, and want more digital/AI interactions compared to older customers. Know your customer demographics and provide the appropriate support and communication options based on their age. Recognize you may need to provide different support options if your customer base is “everyone.”
  • Trust Is a Factor: Seven out of 10 customers (70%) have concerns about privacy and security when interacting with AI. Once again, age makes a difference. Trust and confidence with AI consistently decrease with age.

The Future of AI

As AI continues to evolve, especially in the customer service and experience world, companies and brands must find a balance between technology and the human touch. While customers are becoming more comfortable and finding success with AI, we can’t become so enamored with it that we abandon what many of our customers expect. The future of AI isn’t a choice between technology and humans. It’s about creating a blended experience that plays to the technology’s strengths and still gives customers the choice.

Furthermore, if every business had a 100% digital experience, what would be a competitive differentiator? Unless you are the only company that sells a specific product, everything becomes a commodity. Again, I emphasize that there must be a balance. I’ll close with something I’ve written before, but bears repeating:

The greatest technology in the world can’t replace the ultimate relationship-building tool between a customer and a business: the human touch.

This article was originally published on Forbes.com.

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Customer Experience is Changing

If You Don’t Like Change, You’re Going to Hate Extinction

Customer Experience is Changing

GUEST POST from Shep Hyken

Depending on which studies and articles you read, customer service and customer experience (CX) are getting better … or they’re getting worse. Our customer service and CX research found that 60% of consumers had better customer service experiences than last year, and in general, 82% are happy with the customer service they receive from the companies and brands with which they do business.

Yet, some studies claim customer service is worse than ever. Regardless, more companies than ever are investing in improving CX. Some nail it, but even with an investment, some still struggle. Another telling stat is the growing number of companies attending CX conferences.

Last month, more than 5,000 people representing 1,382 companies attended and participated in Contact Center Week (CCW), the world’s largest conference dedicated to customer service and customer experience. This was the largest attendance to date, representing a 25% growth over last year.

Many recognized brands and CX leaders attended and shared their wisdom from the main stage and breakout rooms. The expo hall featured demonstrations of the latest and greatest solutions to create more effective customer support experiences.

The primary reason I attend conferences like CCW is to stay current with the latest advancements and solutions in CX and to gain insight into how industry leaders think. AI took center stage for most of the presentations. No doubt, it continues to improve and gain acceptance. With that in mind, here are some of my favorite takeaways with my commentary from the sessions I attended:

AI for Training

Becky Ploeger, global head of reservations and customer care at Hilton, uses AI to create micro-lessons for employee training. Hilton is using Centrical’s platform to take various topics and turn them into coaching modules. Employees participate in simulations that replicate customer issues.

Can We Trust AI?

As excited as Ploeger is about AI (and agentic AI), there is still trepidation. CX leaders must recognize that AI is not yet perfect and will occasionally provide inaccurate information. Ploeger said, “We have years and years of experience with agents. We only have six months of experience with agentic AI.”

Wrong Information from AI Costs a Company Money—or Does it?

Gadi Shamia, CEO of Replicant, an AI voice technology company, commented about the mistakes AI makes. In general, CX leaders are complaining that going digital is costing the company money because of the bad information customers receive. Shamia asks, “How much are you losing?” While bad information can cause a customer to defect to a competitor, so does a bad experience with a live customer service rep. So, how often does AI provide incorrect information? How many of those customers leave versus trying to connect with an agent? The metrics you choose to define success with a digital self-service experience need to include more than measuring bad experiences. Mark Killick, SVP of experiential operations at Shipt, weighed in on this topic, saying, “If we don’t fix the problems of providing bad information, we’ll just deliver bad information faster.”

Making the Case to Invest in AI

Mariano Tan, president and CEO of Prosodica says, “Nothing gets funded without a clear business case.” The person in charge of the budget for customer service and CX initiatives (typically the CFO in larger companies) won’t “open the wallet” without proof that the expenditure will yield a return on investment (ROI). People in charge of budgets like numbers, so when you create your “clear business case,” be sure to include the numbers that make a compelling reason to invest in CX. Simply saying, “We’ll reduce churn,” isn’t enough. How much churn—that’s a number. How much does it mean to the bottom line—another number. Numbers sell!

Final Words: Love Change, or Else

Neil Gibson, SVP of CX at FedEx, was part of a panel and shared a quote that is the perfect way to end the article. AI is rapidly changing the way we do business. We must keep up, or else. Gibson quoted Fred Smith, the first CEO and founder of FedEx, who said, “If you don’t like change, you’re going to hate extinction.” In other words, keep up or watch your competition blow past you.

This article was originally published on Forbes.com.

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Customers Love These Five Words

Customers Love These Five Words

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“So you don’t have to …” These five words are powerful, and whether or not customers realize it, they love them.

Think about what makes certain companies stand out from their competitors. Is it their product? Is it price? These matter, but as I’ve been preaching for decades, the differentiator is the customer experience. And specifically, the experience I want to focus on in this article is convenience.

These five words, “So you don’t have to,” form a statement that embodies the essence of creating a convenient customer experience. When companies take on certain responsibilities, eliminate friction points and other tasks to make the buying process easier for a customer, they are sending a message to their customers that says, “We’ll handle this so you don’t have to.”

  • Amazon delivers packages to your doorstep … so you don’t have to drive to the store.
  • Online grocery delivery services shop for your food and deliver it … so you don’t have to spend time in the store, pushing the cart, waiting in line to check out, and like Amazon, you don’t even have to drive to the store.
  • Auto-renewal subscriptions charge you automatically … so you don’t have to remember to re-subscribe.

Shep Hyken Five Words Cartoon

I can go on with numerous examples. The So You Don’t Have To experience is about making it easy for your customers and saving them time, energy and effort. My annual customer service and experience research consistently shows that convenience is a major driver of customer loyalty. In fact, 66% of customers say convenience is more important than friendly service, and 58% of customers are willing to pay more for it.

So, how can you deliver the So You Don’t Have To experience to your customers? Here are four ideas to get you started:

  1. Identify Your Customers’ Friction Points – Identify any areas of stress or effort in your process that can be changed or eliminated to make it easier for your customers.
  2. Practice Proactive Service – Train your team to solve customers’ problems proactively before they contact you – ideally before they even know there is a problem. Examine the reasons for these problems and find ways to eliminate them altogether.
  3. Become Your Customer – Look at your processes as if you are the customer. Mystery shop your own business and experience what your customers experience.
  4. Don’t Be Shy – If you’re going to make it easy for your customers, let them know. Explain why doing business with you is different.

Every time you remove a step, eliminate a form, reduce waiting time or simplify a process, you’re telling the customer you value their time. Whether the words are explicitly stated or implied through your actions, you’re saying, “We’ll handle this … so you don’t have to.”

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The Tricky Business of Tariffs

The Tricky Business of Tariffs

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Tariffs are creating havoc and panic for both customers and businesses. Depending on what you read, the cost-of-living increase for the average consumer can be thousands of dollars a year. And it’s the same for business, but often at a much higher cost. Anything a business purchases to run its day-to-day operations is potentially exposed to higher prices due to tariffs. Whatever businesses buy—supplies, inventory, equipment and more—when it costs them more, that cost is passed on to their customers.

This isn’t the first time there has been “tariff panic.” As recently as 2018, there were tariffs. I wrote a Forbes article about an e-bike company that was forced to raise its prices due to a 25% import tariff. The company was open about the reasons for the price increase and embraced the problem rather than becoming a victim of it. Here are some ways to manage the impact of tariffs:

  • Be Transparent: Everyone may know about the tariffs, but explaining how they are impacting costs will help justify the price increase. In other words, don’t hide the fact that tariffs are impacting your costs.
  • Partner with Vendors: Ask vendors to work with you on a solution to lower costs that won’t hit their bottom lines. If you buy from a vendor every month, maybe it’s less expensive to buy the same amount but ship quarterly instead of monthly. Work with them to find creative ways to reduce costs. This can benefit everyone.
  • Improve Efficiency to Offset Costs: If you’ve thought about a way to improve a process or efficiency but haven’t acted on it, now may be the perfect time to do so. Sometimes being forced to do something can work in your favor. And be sure to share what you’re changing to help reduce costs. Customers may appreciate you even more.
  • Add Value Instead of Just Raising Prices: When price increases are unavoidable, find a way to justify the higher cost. It could include anything—enhanced customer service, a loyalty rewards program, a special promotion and more. Customers may accept paying more if they feel they are getting more value in return.

What NOT to do:

  • Don’t Take Advantage of Customer Panic: As I write this article, people are going to car dealerships to buy cars before the prices increase and finding that the dealers are selling above the retail sticker price because of the demand. Do you think a customer will forget they were “gouged” by a company taking advantage of them during tough times? (That’s a rhetorical question, but just in case you don’t know the answer … They won’t!)
  • Don’t Say, “It’s Not my Fault”: Even when price increases are beyond your control, don’t be defensive. This can give the impression of a lack of confidence and lack of control that can erode the trust you have with your customers.
  • Don’t Say, “It’s the Same Everywhere You Go”: If the customer understands tariffs, they already know this. Stating you have no choice isn’t going to make the customer feel good. Go back to the list of what you can do and find a way to avoid this and the “it’s not my fault” response.

Customers want to hear what you’re doing to help them. They also like to be educated. Knowledge can give the customer a sense of control. Demonstrating genuine concern for the situation and sharing what you’re doing to minimize the impact of tariff-related price increases builds trust that will pay dividends long after the current economic challenges have passed.

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This article originally appeared on Forbes.com

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Bringing a Hospitality Mentality to Customer Experience

Bringing a Hospitality Mentality to Customer Experience

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Want to know the secret to creating an amazing customer experience? It’s simpler than you might think. I recently interviewed Michael Cecchi-Azzolina on my podcast, Amazing Business Radio, and his answer was refreshingly straightforward: “Be kind. Just be nice.”

Cecchi is the owner of Cecchi’s restaurant in New York City and author of Your Table is Ready: Tales of a New York City Maître D’. With nearly 40 years in the hospitality industry, he’s learned that kindness trumps everything else.

It’s Called “Hospitality” for a Reason

Cecchi noticed something interesting. Customers weren’t just thanking him for good service—they were specifically thanking him for his “hospitality.” This shift represents something important. People don’t just want service. They want to feel welcomed, valued and cared for.

Cecchi said, “This is new. I’ve been doing this for almost forty years, and I’ve only been hearing this the past year and a half or so.” The trend in what customers want and expect—for all industries, not just hospitality—is an experience that includes employees who are friendly, knowledgeable and helpful. That’s hospitality.

The Food or Service Question

Years ago, Cecchi interviewed for a job with legendary restaurateur Danny Meyer, who asked him a question that would stick with him for decades: “What’s more important, food or service?” After years of working with world-class chefs, Cecchi’s answer is clear: “It always came down to the service.”

His point is, you could have the best product in the world, but if your service is poor, customers won’t come back. As Cecchi put it, “If you have a surly waiter, a maître d’ who’s rude, a bartender who doesn’t acknowledge you … chances are you’re not coming back.”

My annual customer service and experience research backs this up. Every year, my survey finds that rudeness and apathy are the top reasons customers leave businesses. Sure, the product is important, but kindness — the opposite of rudeness and apathy — is what keeps them coming back.

We Don’t Sell Products—We Sell Experiences

One of my favorite quotes from our conversation was when Cecchi said, “We don’t sell food. We sell an experience. The experience begins when our front door opens. If the lights are perfect and the music is right and you’re getting this wonderful smile from the person at the door … you’re winning.” This is true for every business. You aren’t selling insurance, software or consulting services. You’re selling an experience wrapped around those things.

What does this look like in your business? What’s your equivalent of perfect lighting and the right music? It might be as simple as answering the phone with a smile in your voice or remembering a customer’s name.

The Broadway Principle

Cecchi’s first job out of high school was working at Playwrights Horizons. They had no money to pay him, but he wanted the experience. His boss knew Cecchi needed money to live, and it would be a short time before Cecchi would have to move on, so the boss got him a job at the restaurant across the street.

Cecchi compared restaurant service to Broadway theater: “This is a theater. We’ve got a script. We’ve got a set … those actors who were crushing it, they might have had a breakup that day or someone died in the family. You must put that aside.”

I call this the Broadway Principle. Legendary actor Richard Burton used to tell himself before performances (paraphrased): “Tonight, I want to be so good that I cheat the audience that was here last night.”

What if everyone, no matter their business or industry, approached customer interactions with that level of commitment?

Hiring for Heart, Not Just Experience

Cecchi’s hiring philosophy is not focused on the experience that employees have in the restaurant industry. Although that helps, he’s looking for people who genuinely love interacting with others. “I don’t hire people because of their resume,” he explained. “It takes a really special person to understand what real hospitality is.”

In 2011, I interviewed Jim Bush, former SVP of Worldwide Customer Experience at American Express. His hiring philosophy was similar. I’ll never forget his advice about hiring. Bush explained that given the choice between someone with 10 years of experience in a contact center or someone who worked at a restaurant, he’d hire the restaurant worker every time because they understood how to take care of people. In other words, they understand the hospitality mentality.

It’s All About Emotion

At its core, business is emotional. As Cecchi put it, “Restaurants are an emotional experience. People come in because they’re on a date, or celebrating a birthday or an anniversary.” Again, this isn’t just true for restaurants. Whether you’re buying a car, choosing a healthcare provider or selecting a software vendor, emotions drive decisions.

Cecchi shared a story that perfectly captures the power of hospitality: “I had six women at one table who’d been in the restaurant about 12 times. I jokingly said, ‘Thank God there are no other restaurants in New York City.’ And one of them looked at me and said, ‘Michael, there’s no restaurant in New York City that treats us the way you do here.’”

That story summarizes what we should all aim for—to be the one business that treats customers like no one else does. And it starts with something as simple as being kind, the core of the hospitality mentality.

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This article originally appeared on Forbes.com

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When You Don’t Have What the Customer Wants

When You Don't Have What the Customer Wants

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I recently responded to a question on LinkedIn: A customer is furious about an out-of-stock item. How do you turn their frustration into satisfaction?

I added a second part to that question. What if what the customer wants is something you’ve never had in stock? Some customers might still be angry that you do not have what they want. And even if they aren’t, whether the item is out of stock or you just don’t carry it, that doesn’t mean you can’t make the customer happy.

Before we go further, let me do a very quick recap of how to deal with any upset or complaining customer. This is my five-step process for handling complaints:

  1. Apologize for the problem.
  2. Acknowledge what the problem is.
  3. Discuss the resolution. (In a moment, I’ll cover this in detail.)
  4. Accept ownership. It may not be your fault, but now you own taking care of the customer.
  5. Act with urgency.

So, back to #3, the resolution. Is the item the customer wants temporarily out of stock? If so, when will it be in, and when can the customer expect to receive it? Giving customers information gives them a sense of control.

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What if you’re out of the item and won’t get any more back in inventory? This is an opportunity to shine. If you can’t suggest a reasonable alternative, does a competitor have what the customer wants? Yes, I’m suggesting sending the customer to a competitor. Even if the sale goes to a competitor, the customer will realize you’re more interested in getting them what they want and need versus making a sale, which can go a long way in building trust that takes the relationship to a higher level.

One of my favorite examples comes from an Ace Hardware store. It was a very cold winter, and a customer was upset to find out the store was out of space heaters. Rather than say, “Sorry,” and send the customer away, the associate called a competitor, confirmed they had a space heater, and asked them to hold it for his customer. And who do you think the customer loved after that experience? (It’s a rhetorical question, but just in case you can’t figure it out … Ace Hardware!)

Any time a customer is unhappy or has a complaint, it’s an opportunity to resolve the problem and turn a Moment of Misery™ into a Moment of Magic®. For inventory issues, it’s an easy fix. Always think to yourself, even if you have to give up the sale to a competitor, “Is what I’m doing right now going to get the customer to come back?” When you have the customer’s best interest in mind, they will!

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I Quote Dead People

I Quote Dead People

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The other day, I was talking to a friend about famous movie lines. He said one of his favorite movies was The Sixth Sense starring Bruce Willis, and his favorite line came from 9-year-old Cole, played by Haley Joel Osment, who said, “I see dead people.”

I responded, “That’s funny. I quote dead people.” He looked at me strangely. He laughed. We’re both speakers, and we often use motivational quotes to emphasize our points. I told him the story of a client who felt one of my quotes was outdated. She said, “Nobody knows who you were referring to,” even though I prefaced the quote by mentioning that most of the audience wouldn’t recognize the actor I was about to quote, but that what he said was still relevant.

I could have quoted my father, my third-grade teacher, the 16th president of the United States or Aristotle, who died in 322 B.C. The point is, it doesn’t matter if the person is recognizable, living or dead. It’s what we can learn from them.

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So my line, “I quote dead people,” is now in my standard explanation prior to quoting someone who has passed and whose name may not be recognizable. Here are six of my favorite quotes I’ve used in customer service and experience keynote speeches:

  • Leonardo da Vinci said, “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” Companies that are easy to do business with will win over competitors that offer complicated, cumbersome and inconvenient experiences.
  • Aldo Gucci said, “Quality is remembered long after price is forgotten.” Our customer service research shows that people will pay more for a quality experience.
  • Zig Ziglar said, “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.” Help your customers get what they want – not always what you want to sell them – and they will reciprocate by giving you business.
  • The 16th president of the United States, Abraham Lincoln, said, “Give me six hours to chop down a tree, and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.” There are many ways you can interpret this. I’ll go with the importance of preparation. When you have an important meeting, your customers deserve your best. Take time to prepare!
  • Sam Walton, the founder of Walmart, said, “There is only one boss. The customer. And he can fire everybody in the company from the chairman on down, simply by spending his money somewhere else.” Keep that in mind each and every time you’re interacting with a customer.
  • Tony Hsieh, the founder of Zappos, said, “Customer service shouldn’t be a department, it should be the entire company.”

I’ve quoted many great minds of the past – some well-known, others less recognized. Their words can be powerful, educational and inspiring. But no matter who said them, always give credit where it’s due. Why? Because it’s the right thing to do, and as Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. wisely said, “The time is always right to do the right thing.”

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